Mindfulness is the practice of being fully present. It is an awareness of how your body feels in its surroundings: "knowing what is going on inside and outside ourselves, moment by moment" (Mark Williams, Professor of clinical psychology at the Oxford Mindfulness Centre). It is the ability to suspend judgement and give your undivided attention to what you’re doing and what’s happening around you.
Mindfulness isn't something "exotic" or religious, nor is it blocking your thoughts or a means of escape. It is, instead, seeing thoughts as "mental events... coming and going", and developing an awareness of thoughts and feelings by noting them.
"Mindfulness means paying attention in a particular way; on purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally."Jon Kabat-Zinn
"Mindfulness lets us stand back from our thoughts and start to see their patterns... and deal with them more productively."Mark Williams
"To think in terms of either pessimism or optimism oversimplifies the truth. The problem is to see reality as it is."Thich Nhat Hanh
Try not to think of the past or worry about the future. Be fully present and aware of your senses and feelings.
Welcome difficult emotions rather than numbing them. Create "mental spaciousness to contain these feelings".
Don't label thoughts and feelings as good or bad. Accept them openly. Extend this attitude to others.
Instead of trying to force or change reality into what you believe it should be, accept it as it is.
Feel connected to nature and the "cycle of life". Empathise with yourself and others, without judgement.
Maintain a level-head and non-violent attitude. Don't let your desire for a certain outcome affect your present.
After regular practice, mindfulness not only "prevents depression, but also positively affects the brain patterns underlying day-to-day anxiety and stress". It helps you manage your well-being, improves memory, sharpens focus, increases your ability to make strong connections and boosts creativity.
Helps you "reshape your relationship with mental and physical pain".
Improves your control of stressful situations and reduces "brain chatter".
Develops space between you and difficult situations by focusing on your breath.
Regulating your emotions and thoughts - creating distance - improves quality of sleep.
"Meditation hones our innate ability to focus" on the task in hand.
Give your full attention to loved ones. No more blank stares.
Apply mindfulness to drawing, writing and colouring.
Ever find yourself "sleepwalking through life"? Reclaim your day.
From the popular app Headspace to the Mindfulness guide Wherever You Go, There You Are by Jon Kabat-Zinn, don't miss out on our recommended books, apps, sites for further exploration.